Thank you so much for taking the time you took to reply. Yes I am nervous and this starts. My WAH talks to me more openly but I cannot see him in there anymore. I still long for that man that I used to know. These small things make it even more difficult to detach. I have begun to invest in myself and I can see some hope in ME here and there throughout the day. This has to be a positive sign right? In your process, did your WAW mention anything about your detachment process?