I want to Stand, but think it's hopeless.

[Gordie]

I had written a long post that got zapped by a lost connection. Short version:

1. You sound like you are in a great place.
2. I too question my prior version of our R.
3. Sorry, I think it’s funny that he thinks OW will be faithful.
4. When you say there was a lack of passion but that you were okay with that...and neither of you did anything about it...could you elaborate? Asking for a friend (wink, wink).