If ow is not around, he is kind and friendly and soft spoken. When ow is present, he talks angry and abusive. My space/ her space.
Nothing of his life with her is shared with me. When my children are around them without me around, ex-h knit pick at ow constantly. He beleive we are oblivious and unaware of his behavior.
He manipulates to control. Unfortunately for him, his control lessen as the children get older. And yes, he is angry eventho he has the life of freedom he worked so hard to get. And yes, I am still the reason he is so miserable.
My mlcer has not done the work.. 9 yrs since bd.
Set your boundaries and keep communication in writing. Save them just incase he tries blackmailing you. Just to be safe.
It will be calmer eventually.. hang in there..
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