Btw, have you thought of getting a roommate to help with that mortgage? The Golden Girls looks like a smart arrangement to me now!
Absolutely have looked at this option! It's a great house for sharing and it would give me more breathing room financially. I can do it on my own if I'm working but it would be a bit tight. Also I think I am ready to share the house while back a few months I wasn't. Keep up with those dating adventures!
Peacetoday - hi and thank you too.
quote] was so hooked on the M is forever ideal and the fantasy of being M ..and keeping it together[/quote]
That was me too, if I'm honest. I waited a long time for "mr. right" (lower case intentional), and wasn't willing to admit that our M wasn't as good as I thought. Yes, we had a very comfortable relationship, never fought, etc, but there was little passion on either side. Neither one of us took any action to remedy that either. Difference is I would have done anything to preserve what we had and H took the easy way out and bailed. He is still trying to be friends though and I'm really not interested now that I see clearly the man he is as well as the man he isn't.
