I really like this from bttrfly below. This is how I try to deal w/xw nearly all of the time. You will see this vary from my experience. Sometimes my xw participates and sometimes she chooses to be on her phone alone in the other room like a teenager.
Originally Posted By: bttrfly
she can participate in IF SHE CHOOSES. Make it clear that she's included, but leave it up to her.
you will have a great day with your beautiful children REGARDLESS OF WIFE'S PARTICIPATION/LACK THEREOF.
Originally Posted By: Gordie
The doctor kept saying what a great H I was. That was a little awkward.
This should only have been awkward for your w and I think it was good for her to hear.
You've received a lot of good advice. Stay positive and keep the focus on yourself and the kids.
