Well Just saw the OM at work, WW and I work at the same place but difference office, the OM is a co worker of hers and he sometimes has to come to my office. I starred at him for a while then he looked away, it took everything in me not to say anything. But really what for? I once drafted a letter to send to his boss, but then at the last minuted decided not to, I think someone pointed out thats controlling behavior and does nothing to make me feel better other then out right revenge. Let this thing run it's course, and if she's that rotten to her core then I wouldn't want her anyway, let the OM have her. It's just hard not thinking about her and what she's done, every day does get a bit better even if its a small amount. Time will heal all.