Hi Ginger, those FB postings are a real red flag I think. If I'm potentially interested in a guy, I like to become his FB friend and I normally have a look at postings going back as it is a good indicator of where someone is at over a goodly period of time. I post very little on my own FB page, and so I am not an open book in the same way.

But a guy who is talking about hot chicks and complaining about buying dinner for someone - not someone I would want to spend time with at all...

JMHO of course, but I have certainly learned some useful things on FB - from anti-Muslim sentiments, to boasting about intimate relations with past GF's, to jibes about mobility scooter users. All illuminating and I head in the other direction if there is some questionable stuff - it has become one of my basic tests...

Hope this helps anyway :-)

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