Hi all...started the refi process so hopefully it will go smooth. Have my D's this week so we have a daddy/daughter dance to go to at church tomorrow night for Valentines Day and they have soccer practices and games this week as well. The Spring season starts this week and is one of my favorite times of the year.
I have a bad case of tendonitis in my L elbow from lifting weights so I was restricted to just cardio this morning at the gym. Hopefully it feels good enough to play basketball tomorrow.
Not much else to report....feeling good and ready to get this D over with.
Had some time with the W on Saturday. She now refers to me as the girls Dad and we started the process of separating their clothes so we don't have to lug suitcases back and forth every week. She is not occupying much of my head space these days and I don't have much emotion in me when I see her. There is total relaxation when I am around her.
I have noticed that through the D process she stills defers to me for a lot of things. Financial stuff, car stuff, what to do with certain things like the money she will get from equity in the house, etc. It just reaffirms to me that there is no OM and this is really more about her than me as a H or father. She sent me a bunch of pictures on Saturday night of the girls have a sleepover with their friends at her apartment which I thought was cool. I do know that she will be a good co-parent and she has been respectful to me through this process.
