I find myself doing good for most of the day, then at night I'm over analyzing things or worrying, like I said earlier.
Thats understandable. Its hard lying alone and thinking about all of the possibilities and ramifications of every decision youve made or are yet to make. For me, it helped to stay focused on my goals and ask myself if I was doing what I could to move closer to achieving them.
Originally Posted By: Kilo
Hypothetical situation- A few days have gone by with no interactions (her work week this normally happens. Then Sun\Mon she has kids so theres a little there.) She sends me a random text message, not about kids, logistics or R. I don't respond for a few hours, or till the morning or just longer than I'd normally be before DR.
There is a good chance she would come back with a snippy comment. Like she's done recently: "Oh okay. were done texting too" and I can hear the sarcastic tone its said in.
I guess my question which I assume will be easily answered is, what do I do with sarcastic, snippy, b***hy comments about me being too busy, unavailable, or short with her?
Im not really sure that there is a response needed at all. I would say that your actions are more important. Getting sucked into a discussion through those comments doesnt portray the "we're done texting" message.
What is there to say that isnt explain-y or judge-y?
