" It really hurt me that when I told him I was leaving to sign a lease, he seemed unaffected, like it didn't bother him.
Maybe it did. But I dont see why this is a bad thing. Do you see how twisted this is?
"I chose to move out of the house and sign up to permanently live elsewhere and I am upset with HIM for not chasing after me."
Big, sweeping, romantic gestures of you running into the leasing office while shes holding the pen and giving a huge speech about your future lives together.........they dont work in reallife. Thats only in the movies. Let's say you HAD done that. Or sobbed like a baby when she told you. They would have only driven her away further.
Don't beat yourself up over what she's saying. My guess is that she wants to paint you as the 'bad guy' in their minds or in her mind as a way of alleviating her own guilt. Either way, I dont see how it changes anything for you.
