He states that he cannot trust me because I have gone over the budget. But honestly the budget thing is just excuses. Im not saying that it should be ignored but it is not a reason to divorce spouse. He has serious depression which he refuses to treat and a grass is greener mentality. We actually have a great friendship, intense attraction, similar senses of humor and so on. We are compatible in so many regards. My opinion is that he spun into a deep depression again and the budget thing put him over the edge. I think he may talking to someone which only perpetuates the "leaving" mentality. I turn in my response to the divorce papers on the 19th. I have to completely detach at this point. Because the only way to ever reconcile is to let him go. At this point he does not want to be saved.
