All I can do is laugh at the spew I'm getting again. I told W that my part of the renovation debt will be paid when I buy the apartment. She went nuts! The f-word was there about 30 times. Wow. I should have told her about my plans and ask her if it would be ok for me to pay my part of the debt. And then staryed the you're such a f-ing saint, we were never good for each other etc...
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.