I asked myself that before letting him know. I felt a but conflicted because I do love having him here but then it gets hurtful because he continues to be moving forward with the D and it becomes too painful. So I told him nicely but that he could come every other week. When he is here I get my hopes up and that is the painful part. I am not sure sometimes because my DB coach encourages to be with him when I am not pursuing but then on the boards it often says something different. I guess for me the hard part is knowing when you are being taken advantage of or if it is a good move. Hence, having him here for Sunday dinners feels good but then he starts to pack up things for his new life. This is where I am stuck.
