That sounds realistic even if it is not the kind of divorce busting I am hoping for. So the LRT aims at making the LBS strong enough to get a life after divorce. And divorce is the only option for a broken marriage because there is this mad timing issue. In case the WAS realizes his fault at all, it is too late anyway, because the LBS has moved on. So why make thoughts about whether the WAS would not only realize his fault but also openly admit it and try to return to the marriage.
Honestly speaking, this perspective makes me resign. It simply doesn't matter how I act and react and detach and stop chasing and get a life and whatsoever. As for the marriage it is too late - from all perspectives. That is reality.
