What a great post
I know my XH was no saint ..I was so hooked on the M is forever ideal and the fantasy of being M ..and keeping it together

But in reality my XH was very unavailable as a H most of our M-
and especially after the second child-
I'm sure he cheated as well especially the last few years after he became successful


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow