What a great post I know my XH was no saint ..I was so hooked on the M is forever ideal and the fantasy of being M ..and keeping it together
But in reality my XH was very unavailable as a H most of our M- and especially after the second child- I'm sure he cheated as well especially the last few years after he became successful
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow