I am new here. Is it ok that I ask a question without telling too many about my situation right now? I need to warm up in order to become more open ...
I've read everything about the last resort technique. I am sure it is meaningful and the best option I have. Still, I have no clue and I am lacking any vision how things could practically develop in a positive way. As Michelle puts it, my husband "has said in no uncertain terms that he wants a divorce and it feels like he really means it". He has become so deeply unloving that he isn't shy to hurt me in this most extreme way I can imagine.
Isn't the bomb dropping itself a kind of insurmountable obstacle for any reconciliation? I mean not my side (being willing to reconcile whatever will happen) but his one. If you tell somebody you are done, you will need a lot of willpower to return and to say that leaving was wrong - in particular if you went away because you felt hurt by the person you've left.
This question keeps my mind occupied all the time even if I know that it doesn't help the situation. So I would be glad to hear some practical experiences.
