I think OLD is different in that you are meeting a complete stranger. Unless they are really good at flirting, body language and engaging eye contact and connection (you can learn how to do that on various you tube videos), you are probably not going to feel an instant attraction. IRL dating when you meet someone in school or work or maybe on forums you have time to build up a crush first. I waited 4 dates before i kissed the guy i met on OLD. I didnt know him. And after that i liked the kiss and decided that i wanted to continue romantically. I liked his profile because it was lengthy, showed soneone that wanted a ltr and i got the feeling that he was a LBS and single dad. Soneone like that deserved getting to know. I didnt look him up. But he said he did to me to see if i was telling the truth.
Ginger. I met you and in no way do you come across as a needy or desperate person. I think you are stunning, popular, amd lots of fun. But i know how certain guys are. Especially single, younger ones. (I used to hang out with all my brothers friends amd i have some brutally honest male friends) I think texts like that are not meant to reach out for help in difficult times.
They are actually very disrespectful on his part.
I am glad that you are not going to respond anymore.
