Nice guy Syndrome!

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Thanks Vanilla. I respect your opinion. Now that I’ve had more time to think about it, and talked with a friend of mine, I’m of the opinion that I just keep it to myself.

I know 4 years sounds crazy. I actually had lost track of how long its been. There’s a lot of drama constantly coming from her that she gets me swept up in. Because I’m a nice guy, I’ve been there for her all along the way thinking she would see what a mistake it is not to be together. I definitely feel different now.

The more I’ve pulled back this week, by not reaching out and having other plans, the more she has been inquisitive as to what I’m up to. And I feel better for it, much better.