I need help. My WAH was taking odds and ends to his new house today. I tried to not be around because it was too painful. I told him that I did not want him to be here for family dinners on Sunday. It is not good for me and that he could take the girls every other Sunday. Today I reminded him that he had to take the girls tomorrow. He then proceeded to tell me "Where do you want me to take them?" At that moment I wanted to say " IDGAF!!! Figure it out" But I didn't. Instead I said "IDK call your sisters." The guilt set inside but I was not rude but honest. I cannot do it and pretend we are a happy family when he is choosing to leave. Also, WAH is choosing this because he claims to not want to be with me so he does not get to eat my food and sit with me. Maybe it is the wrong attitude but I cannot coddle this behavior. What do you think?
