W said she is not looking for a relationship and is just seeing this guy. He is a f-buddy. That is a sign that she really is what she was before we met.

Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.