How do you think you went from that to a loveless, sexless marriage? I'm sure you've explored that in MC but maybe you could give us the condensed version. It helps to understand why you are here. Also, why do you want to save your M? Serious question, not many people would want to try to salvage a dead M when there's been no kissing for 10 (!!!!!) years and no sex for 3.
From what I’ve discovered, unresolved marriage issues and my stonewalling is what I think. Add in the 3 kids, a few job changes, her complex ptsd because of sexual abuse and emotional abuse by sister and Mom....it was the perfect storm.
Why would I want to save it? Every read any Shakespeare? The timing of the shrew? (Trying to be funny, but I’m not) because actually it’s what got me into the place to begin with. I’m reading nmmng and I am crying and laughing at the same time…..where has this book been all my life? It explains all of my female relationships since high school. Or even Sandi2? Anyways, hope this makes sense
