Yea. I definitely have times where I'm wondering what it is I'm trying to save, and just want to get on with my life. I've had a lot of that lately, hence my considering separation earlier.

As others here have pointed out though, that's nothing stopping me from actively going the GAL route while I'm living with her. The option to separate will always be there later.

Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18