And still struggling

[Jim1234]

I'm curious what other people are doing about an issue that's come up....

W wants some of the money we have in mutual funds prior to equitable distribution settlement. My lawyer is recommending we don't settle piecemeal, but settle the whole issue at once. I would prefer not to push her forward in the divorce, but at the same time, I'm not sure it matters.

Specifically, she wants the equity out of the marital house. I refinanced for the amount of the loan, telling her there was other money we could use to compensate her for her half of the equity. This is the money in mutual funds.

I'm sure some of you have had to divide some assets before finalizing. How did you do it?

I'm thinking since I suggested this in lieu of refinancing for the balance plus half the equity, I should do the right thing, and get her the money from our mutual funds. What are your thoughts?