Yes.

When this first started, she wanted to see a functional doc and a therapist.
I supported both of these ideas.

The therapist she's seeing is a "life coach" though, and has been referring her to all kinds of new age spirituality. We've had a few fights about me not being open minded. (I know better than to engage in these now). She's paying the therapist for every session though, and is paying other healing professionals.

When I meet the therapist (see my first post in this thread for that story) she seemed extremely positive and reasonable. so I will give her that. That said, the wife has changed from a skeptical agnostic, to someone who is having a spiritual awakening and who wants to rely on intuition for everything. She's actually said she wants to make decisions with intuition and not logic moving forward.

I'm not sure the path she's going down is healthy, or good for her, or our relationship, but I think all I can do at this point is "be the lighthouse" and see if she works through it. While working on my own life in the meanwhile.


Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18