So I had another reminder today that the W is not in a good place.
She's been seeing a life coach (i.e a therapist who isn't a psychologist) who has pushed her to be open to a whole new-age spiritual journey.

I have some evidence that the coach isn't being honest, and is setting up "coincidences" to look like a spiritual "synchronicity" or something.

I know that I can't say anything to object to any of the "gurus" she has found. The wife is lost and looking for answers, and this people are apparently telling her things she'd like to hear.
What's the expression "There are none so zealous are the recently converted".


Part of me wonders if they're actually attempting to drive a wedge in her marriage, since isolating the victim is cult 101.

Not that there is anything I can do about it. These are essentially toxic enablers, just an interesting example. Ironically it actually feels kind of good to see some of the irrationality. It's at least helping me realize that this isn't due to my failures as a husband.

I have had some to be sure, but that's not what's going on here.


Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18