I am slowly getting to the point where I’m facing defeat but again will not file for D as I will NOT be the person who’ll end this family, that again is something she as to face as a consequence of her A.
Mark,
It's not a defeat. Right or wrong, your wife has decided to move on with her life. You can't control what she does, but you can move on with your own life. You need to focus on building a wonderful life for yourself and your children. If your wife changes her mind, then you can see where things go from there, but pining for what your life was is not going to help because that's gone forever.
