Going back through your posts, all I've seen are you focussing on your W's A. Prior to that, there must have been real red flags. Be honest. What were some of the things that you did that may have contributed to the marriage problems. Now I'm going to say that there is absolutely never a good reason or excuse for someone to have an affair. So your W is never justified for that.
Also, I was curious. You said the two of you were previously married. What were some of the issues in hers and yours past marriages that contributed to the D?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
