Btw, thanks for the feedback guys. This has been one of the hardest periods of my life emotionally, and I really appreciate the support, advice and feedback.

Going to attempt to follow the advice above, and will schedule some more sessions with Chuck.

Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18