I know it's not remorse. What I mean is the fact that the guilt has been about her. This is the first time she said something that wasn't about her.

That is what I meant with reacting. It's not my business and I know it. And I've been moving forward. I just don't hit the bars when I'm with the kids.

I thought you were talking about the apology if I meant it. Like I said. I reacted thus it was not meant. So apology was in order.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.