What I did next. I apologised. What she wrote next blow me away. W: I can't take this guilt anymore.
M: Can you tell me where this guilt comes from?
W: Me hurting you. I'm a bad person and a bad mom. Pete, I screamed here on new years eve. Screamed and cried on the floor. It's not easy for me.
I felt apart completely when I came here for a thermometer and medicine. Although I want this, it's not easy for me. It's hurting me too.
M: I undestand this is not easy for you. Do you have anyone to talk to? Can ypu talk to anyone?
W: Yes I have and I can.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.