I totally screwed up. W has the kids this weekend and I heard she is hitting the bar scene on friday. So I told her that I don't understand, since we don't have much time with the kids, why these moments has to be used to hit the bars. And so the spew began...

Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.