Hoping this can be saved, but having doubts

[Coconut]

Also, I went back to check your timeline and see that you are only a very short time into this. I think you are pushing all or nothing (separation) way to early, time is your friend and you would be much better off using this time to GAL and 180's.

I think you mentioned in your first post that she has been using this time to make a life of her own, and that's what you should be doing also. Ultimately, if you both find happiness on your own (as long as it's not with OP), it will benefit each of you individually and that is attractive.

Stop pressuring her, if she feels the pressure removed interaction between you two will likely improve, but if you pressure her she will lash out.

Tell us about 180's you've made and GAL activities you are doing.