I'm surprised to see such (apparently) different advice between the coaches and the community.
In some ways this makes it harder, I wasn't HAPPY about separating, but I at least felt I was doing the right thing. This is throwing more indecision on the fire.


Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18