I'm really tempted to say we need to have a conversation, and that I won't continue to be a provider, shoulder, friend, etc.. for someone who is clearly half in and unwilling to put any effort into maintaining a relationship. That she is welcome to try and form a relationship with me moving forward, but in the meanwhile, if she knows she doesn't want to be with me, we need to separate.
why have the conversation? That's Persuing, and in your case you already know how she feels. The only reason you want the conversation is to try and get her to change her mind.. Pressure and persuit, both bad for you.
Don't want to be a doormat, then stop being one. Don't tell her, just DO IT. Your not going to change things by talking about it, only by making changes.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
