Update:

So we're going on a vacation this weekend, for a whole week. Mostly to get some sunny days since this winter has really been depressing in addition to this whole thing with grey skies and cold, dreary weather for what feels like 3 or 4 months straight frown

We'll see how it goes i guess, it will be good for the kid either way.

Today she told me how she was feeling lonely even though she was standing right next to her husband and her son. I just said "i know the feeling" and we kinda left it at that...

I kinda feel like we are somewhat stuck in this situation, neither of us really knows what to do move things forward, and neither of us really wants to take decisive steps to end our relationship/marriage. Not sure how long this can go on like this...

Anyway, i'll report back once we get back from the vacation!