Wow. Benito, what you just wrote hits home big time. Changing the way one communicates in situations makes a huge difference. I'd like to throw one idea in here. Before one let's ones thoughts out it would be a good idea to make sure the other one is available on all levels to hear it. So why not make an appointment? "Honey, I'd like to talk to you about xxxx, would now be a good time?" Is yes, go for it. If not for ANY reason reschedule it within a day. I've started to use this and it's quite easy. It doesn't take the other one by surprise. But this is just a thought...
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.