Originally Posted By: apothem
Hey Benito,

Reading your story has really been helping me each day. I'm so impressed with the changes you made and stuck to. I'm going through that process now myself. If you have some time, could you check out my situation and provide some advice? http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2776453#Post2776453

Keep up the great work, you are a true role model!


Hello!,

Wow - its a good job I still lurk from time to time otherwise I wouldn't of seen this.

It would have been better if you could have read it from the beginning, but there were more than enough clues in the posts etc.. for someone to have an idea who I was, so I requested they come down.

I will have a read of your situation and get back to you.

Cheers for the compliment. Believe me when I say I was an absolute wreck when I came here. Co-dependent as hell as spiraling into a deep hole of black despair.

The outcome might has been positive - but I wouldn't want to live those 8/9 months again that is for sure.