Wow, I can't even imagine. You are strong focus, that visit would of shaken me to my core, you handled it in stride. I love my ex-inlaws but have distanced myself considerably for awhile. Ii I ever choose to reach out, it will be as friends, not as family. But they do come with memories, so it needs to be my choice, and while she may have done it with loving intentions, it isn't her choice, it's yours.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized