Manny Don't waste your anger on revenge (red) or on disgust (green), just go straight to WTF and STFU. Move on.
It is a precious time and oh so brief. Action plan needed I feel.
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Thank you Vanilla for this it really hit me like a bullet, I started to get stuck on the whole revenge thing, but I think the anger is better used to move forward. I'm a good guy, and I know only a fool would leave, It's time to wipe the tears and look forward to building a beautiful life with my 3 kids, the right person will come when the time is right.