Oh, and to clarify some, since I am trying to focus on "more than just the sex" --- those "50 shades" movies are more than "just about the sex" (just as my W has told me that, in general, with her, "it's about more than just sex")... the "dominant" mindset extends to pretty much all facets of the characters interaction-- it's just that the sex is obviously what gets the headlines.
Just found it interesting in light of some of the things my W has said...
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
