WW, A ended, but struggling to reconnect (My 11th)

[hoosjim]

I'll let someone else respond to what you wrote, but I think your thinking of it to much in a sexual way. Here's a link to something sandi2 wrote on someone's thread that I copied to mine (it's the last post. It address Alpha vs Beta behavior, not just sexually.

Coconut, thanks for that. Really good stuff. I had actually come across as more sex-focused than I had intended... I understand the importance of the entire dynamic, and the post you link does an excellent job of laying it all out. I had done some online reading based on a similar suggestion by Sandi, and found some very useful info, but what you linked added a couple of facets I had not previously considered. Indecisiveness is indeed something I have been working on eliminating, particularly in planning. One of my good friends is continually coaching me on this: "Stop analyzing, just make a plan and go with it", and I am actually doing very well in this regard.

So thanks again!



Which raises an interesting point:

Sandi2 (or anyone): What should the dynamic be in that regard (alpha male) when MC is concerned? It seems that much of that entire process (MC) runs somewhat contra to the Alpha male mindset.