J9, congrats on surviving that! Sounds like an excellent outcome - almost exactly what my XW and I agreed on. I'm glad this wasn't contentious for you.

Originally Posted By: Joseph9
I find it pretty satisfying that she "Thanked me" for being me. Which hopefully gives you all some insight on who I am as a person. It also confirms to me that she knows what/who is walking away from and she is good with it. Truthfully I just don't think she could handle being a full time mom and wife any more.


Keeping your sense of self through this whole process - quite an achievement. It's certainly not easy, and you did much better than me.

High five!


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.