[quote=Holding]How could you have broken her heart? Maybe you let her down, but this was your first meeting. She's a ball of trouble if she really did get so wrapped up in you before actually meeting, and after y'all both agreed - on the surface - to just be friends.

Was this R with Witty more developed that you let on? /quote]

Ok, broke her heart may have been an exageration, the relationship wasn't more developed than I let on (but we did text/talk a lot) and she is a ball of trouble.

I think she saw me as her knight in shining armor, she saw an opportunity to get her and her kids involved with fishing, camping and hiking with my help, she was very attracted to me, and she is very lonely.

I'm not comfortable with doing something that I know is going to hurt someone else, so I overreacted in my post. But I agree that talking with someone for two weeks shouldn't be cause for much pain if they exit your life, so I can't take responsibility if it did.

Anyway, moving on.. The game group is getting together again Saturday night at the other house they play at, apparently this get together usually draws about twice as many people so should be a good time.

I also found a singles group on meetup that is getting together at a restaurant/bar Saturday afternoon, they are meeting to plan outings for the next few months, so I signed up to go to that. I'm hoping to get a few activities in the itinerary, like escape rooms, zip-lining, etc, so every meet isn't at a restaurant or bar.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized