You have to take care of yourself. You have to be upfront and honest with your H. You have to call him out. If you dont, your bitterness will lead to resentment, and most LBS on this page knows the direction it can go from there.
I was a very prideful man. I still have pride, but I wasn't listening to my W. But when she dropped that bomb on me about not being in love with me, my eyes open quickly. Im not saying you have to go that far, but your H, has to hear you loud and clear. Maybe you should tell him he needs to leave for a while or you leave for a while to give yourself some time to think and your H a glimpse of what it would be like without you around. And when he shows you he is doing work then you go back. Especially if he is not willing to go to counseling.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
