So I read all of Sandi2. Good stuff, especially from a woman's perspective. After reading, I am recognizing that I don't have a clue. I have been essentially a doormat and taking it without a fight.
But here is my question. Suppose you catch your W in a lie, vis-a-vie "believe nothing that you hear and only half of what you see". Here's my question, "when do you confront or should you even confront?"