On the other hand, Case 2 is something that directly impacts you and your son.
Yeah I see your point. I think in the beginning, it is hard to clarify what is essential communication, and what can be left out.
I'm doing okay, its just those times where my kids have went to bed for the night, and I'm left with a quiet house and just my thoughts. And more often than not, my brain takes me down these worst case scenario's and has to remind me of the situation.