Haha, yes sandi2, you done broke the inter web with so much input .
I couldn't help myself, had to respond to this.
Hoosjim, your in a tough spot, most either seperate or get the "come to Jesus" moment by this time.. But now It basically comes down to your intuition, does she want to commit or is she waiting for a better option? It's really difficult to determine by your postings. I will say it seems you have a shot, but at some point things need to stabilize so moving forward becomes an option.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized