This used to be easier - and a lot more fun, cont.

[Coconut]

Don, I say go for it.. Take the gig, do something you love and enjoy the vacation.. If your worried about them pairing you up with someone else (which I completely understand) find someone that will sign up and just not show up.. Heck, have anyone agree to sign up, even a co-worker if need be, if they just don't show they won't be able to fill in the last minute cancellation. But if there's someone you'd enjoy the experience with, invite them, make it clear your ok if they cancel, you just want the spot filled, no pressure.

I've been on several cruises (living in so. FL did have its perks), and they are awesome for what they are. OLD [censored] for men (im sure you'll eventually get to your post), but being in the spotlight doing what you love is living, don't give that up.