I am agreeing a lot with accurays suggestions. Your ex is in battle mode. Shes pushing buttons. Intentionally trying to get some reactions.
Show her strength by not overlooking things, but in a way that protects you legally. Shes trying to bully you and the weaker you appear the more she will do it. She doesnt respect you. Thats the problem. Nice wont work with her. Call her on her sh!t and make her be the one that has to think twice. The more you give the nore she will take so right now i wouldnt compromise on anything. you can do so later once you establish alpha (of course within the legal system to do so)
