i echo everything Sandi said... and i also agree about not living together right away... on the other hand, as a WW, i didn't want to live with my H right away because i was not genuine in reconciling at first--if you remember, H and i had a few false starts... so do be careful here... i would want to be sure that she is in full agreement to be in NC with OM... i believe you have access to whether she is or not... you have done well with your self-respect... keep that up...
please, please be careful... when my H made it easy for me to come back, i didn't do the work, and our real reconciliation was prolonged... it wasn't until i came to him with my tail between my legs and my heart in my hand that i was truly ready... i do hope she is ready... i think you have DB'd rather well, thus far... keep doing it... keep GAL... keep being a H only a fool would leave... make the new Chris the real Chris... and please keep us updated... and if you need a sounding board, we are here...
